Marriage & Couple Counseling
It is very common for couples to use a counselor or coach to help them
"get on the same page," resolve differences, and grow in love again using
new strategies.
In relationships, time does not heal. And things don't "just get better." It takes intentional steps in new directions to develop a satisfying and long-lasting marriage / relationship. The materials we use for couples has an over 70% success rate. Let us help you take those important redirecting steps toward happily ever after.
Marriage and couples counseling can benefit anyone - individual partners, those not-yet-engaged, or couples who’ve been married for decades.
Marriage / Couples Coaching
Most couples are surprised to find that a good relationship is mysterious, complicated, and at times difficult. To develop the oneness you hoped for, you will need to grow and continue growing in some key areas. Using the best strategies of marriage counseling (EFT - Emotionally-Focused Therapy for couples) and life coaching, we can help your relationship thrive.
In addition to being married himself, our counselor has been walking beside couples for nearly 35 years. Let us help you take your next step towards happily ever after.
Marriage / Couple coaching topics include:
Pre-marital Preparation
The Ingredients of Real Intimacy
Dealing with Differences
Applying Attachment Science
Developing Secure Emotional Bonds
Effective Communication
Anger Management and Conflict Resolution
Boundaries with In-Laws
Growing Closer through Difficult Seasons
Establishing Habits for a Bright Future
and personalized sessions
Marriage / Couples Counseling
Serious conflict, years of unhealthy relational habits, or personal issues often lead couples to the breaking point. With calming compassion and practical wisdom, our counselor can help bring couples back from the brink of divorce by identifying strategic issues and leading couples to new effective methods of interacting. Over the last 35 years, we have helped many couples survive affairs, terrible neglect, and years of toxic habits. Using a reliable "inside out" model and EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) methodologies, our counseling can help you to become healthier individuals and develop a more enjoyable relationship.
Please know that this kind of couple counseling frequently requires a mix of individual sessions and sessions as a couple.
Marriage / Couple counseling topics include:
Healing Wounds
Anger Management
Identifying Root Issues
Forgiveness
Effective Communication
Resolving Conflict
Falling in Love Again
Applying Attachment Science
Developing Secure Emotional Bonds
Mapping a New Path Towards a New Destination
Setting Boundaries
and topics unique to your relationship
Articles about improving your relationships
10 Practical ways to Revive Your Marriage
About Anger and Marriage
"I Want a Divorce"
About Relating Like A Boyscout
Why do we keep having the same argument over and over?
Most recurring arguments aren’t about the surface issue; they’re about deeper patterns and unmet needs. Without addressing those, the same conflict keeps resurfacing in different forms.
How do we communicate without it turning into a fight?
It starts with slowing the conversation down, calming the big emotions, and changing how things are said. Small shifts in tone, energy, timing, and approach can make a big difference.
What should we do after a big argument?
Repair is key. That means coming back together, taking responsibility where needed, and rebuilding safe and secure connection. It’s less about who was right and more about restoring the relationship.
Why does one of us shut down during conflict?
Shutting down is often an anxiety response to feeling overwhelmed or unsafe. Reminding your partner that he/she is safe with you is an important part of healthy disagreements.
Can couples counseling help if only one of us wants to come?
Yes. Change in one person can influence the dynamic of the relationship. It’s often a starting point, and sometimes the other partner becomes more open over time.
Is it too late to fix our relationship?
No. Relationship counseling offers couples many evidence-based tools that, if used, will radically change even the most damaged relationship. If both people are willing to look at what’s happening and make changes, there is often more hope than it feels like. Many couples seek help later than they wish they had.
What does a healthy conflict actually look like?
Healthy conflict is respectful, focused, and leads to understanding—not escalation. It creates clarity instead of distance.
How do we rebuild trust after hurt?
Trust is rebuilt through small, consistent actions that show change. It doesn’t happen all at once, but it can be rebuilt step by step.
How do I get started with couple's counseling?
Click here to schedule a free, no-obligation 15 minute exploratory call. We’ll discuss your needs and see if we’re a good fit. Or you can schedule an initial session to get help more quickly.
Are you ready to take your next step toward an abundant relationship?
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The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
- Psalm 34:17-18